Sociology of sex

Part 1: Setting the Stage

Working Title: “Sex ≠ Gender ≠ Sexuality — But Let’s Talk About Sex(uality)”

• Sex: Usually refers to biological differences (e.g., chromosomes, hormones, reproductive organs). It’s often treated as binary (male/female), but sociologists recognize intersex and the social construction of what counts as “biological sex.”

• Sexuality: Involves attraction, desire, sexual orientation, identity, and behavior. It’s not just who you’re attracted to, but how society organizes, regulates, and understands that attraction.

Sociologists emphasize that both sex and sexuality are socially constructed—not just “natural” or “biological” truths.

🎙️ Part 2: Radio Structure Idea (for URD)

1. Intro (2–3 mins)

“Let’s talk about sex, baby…” or something bold like that. Define terms, tease out questions. Maybe quote Alfred Kinsey or Gayle Rubin.

2. Crash Course or academic clip (5–6 mins)

Possibly from someone like Kristen Syrett or Laci Green (on sexuality) or something more sociological—maybe Jackson Katz or Michael Kimmel (on masculinity and sexuality).

3. Songs (sprinkled throughout)

Let’s Talk About Sex – Salt-N-Pepa (obvious but good)

I Want Your Sex – George Michael

Born This Way – Lady Gaga

Sexual Healing – Marvin Gaye

She Bop – Cyndi Lauper (has a good story!)

Freedom! – Wham! (ties into sexuality & expression)

• Possibly a local or queer artist (like Rae Spoon or Tegan & Sara)

4. Sociologist Spotlight

• Michel Foucault: On how societies discipline sex and define what’s “normal.”

• Gayle Rubin: Famous for the “sex/gender system” and her “Charmed Circle” theory.

• Judith Butler: On the performativity of gender and how sex itself is not simply biological.

• Eve Sedgwick: Queer theory, and why binaries don’t hold up well.

5. Comedy or social commentary clip

• Possibly something from Wanda Sykes, Eddie Izzard, or a cheeky sketch on sexual norms.

6. Your Reflection

Maybe riff on the messiness of sex education, taboos, or how things have changed (or not) in your lifetime.

🔍 Next Steps for Us

Would you like to:

• Focus first on how sex is socially constructed (e.g., intersex, medical gatekeeping)?

• Or explore how sexuality has been policed or liberated over time?

• Or follow a more biographical structure—e.g., Kinsey → Rubin → Foucault → Queer Theory?

Let me know what direction you feel drawn to, and I’ll help sketch it out.

You say that sociologist emphasize that both sex and sexuality are social constructed.  Is that true for all sociologist?

Great question—and no, not all sociologists agree that sex and sexuality are entirely socially constructed. The field is diverse, and there are ongoing debates. Let’s break it down:

🧠 1. Social Constructionism (Yes, Mostly Constructed)

Many sociologists—especially those influenced by feminism, queer theory, and symbolic interactionism—emphasize that both sex and sexuality are shaped by cultural meanings, institutions, and power dynamics.

• Sex (biological differences) is seen as not purely “natural” because even what counts as a penis, a vagina, or a hormone level “problem” is often decided by medical and social norms.

• Sexuality (attraction, desire, identity, etc.) is seen as profoundly shaped by language, media, religion, law, and history.

Key thinkers here:

• Michel Foucault

• Judith Butler

• Gayle Rubin

• Eve Sedgwick

🧬 2. Essentialism (Some Things Are Just Natural)

Other sociologists (and many biologists, psychologists, and anthropologists) hold that:

• Sex is primarily biological (male/female/intersex), and social meaning comes after that.

• Sexuality may be influenced by society, but there are innate biological drives and patterns of attraction that aren’t fully constructed.

These views don’t deny social influence—but they might push back on the idea that everything is constructed.

Examples:

• Some evolutionary psychologists or sociobiologists argue that heterosexual attraction, mate selection, or even jealousy are biologically rooted.

• The Kinsey Reports (1940s–50s) presented data on a spectrum of sexual behavior, suggesting variability, but still grounded in biology.

🧩 3. Middle-Ground Perspectives (Interactionist or Integrative)

Many sociologists today try to integrate both views:

• Yes, biology matters—bodies are real.

• But, what society does with bodies and desires is where sociology steps in.

This means sex and sexuality aren’t entirely constructed, but they’re interpreted, organized, rewarded, and punished through social systems.

Sociologists in this camp might include:

• Raewyn Connell (on hegemonic masculinity)

• Steven Seidman (on sexual politics)

• Arlene Stein (on queer identity formation)

🔄 Summary for Radio (if helpful):

“Some say sex is biology and sexuality is desire—but sociology asks: how do we know what’s ‘natural’? Turns out, we’ve been labeling bodies and desires in ways that serve institutions, power, and culture. But not every sociologist agrees. Some say our biology whispers, even if society shouts.”